most of the time i just do it because i think people want to hear it. or it makes me a little bit more important in thier eye or something. but it doesn’t add up to anything. i end up hurting the people i care most about. i shut people out this way says the doctor. anyone actually successful at stoping the little lies they tell? or is my life going to be as big of a blur as it has been so far? so many times in my life where i thought i was doing okay and that the lies will just stop and i will be happy. but they don’t. and yet again i’ve lost another girlfriend that trusted me and i hurt. how am i supposed to take this?? what do i do??