write my memoirs
Hiatus 2 years ago

Ok. Only fair to make a post about leaving.

Overwhelmed. This place has to fall far down on my list of priorities. I will admit I have fun making posts and replying to others. Moody or not.

I say too much, however. I do not want to be recognized on here. There is too much I do that is not up to moral standards. I don’t care, but other people would. I have children to think about. The future. Etc.

I will write my memoirs someday as well and a lot of this stuff will be in there. I don’t want it out there in Cyberspace. Not yet. Maybe I’ll just have a website afterall.

Whatever the case, I don’t feel all that comfortable hanging out my dirty laundry here. 43Things has rights to what you say. I do not give my rights away so easily.

So, take care my friends. I may peek my head back in from time to time. Nothing is ever set in stone…until we die.



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Just as long as you know....

That I am fond of you and wish you the very best always! :0) Take care and if our paths cross again, that’d be mighty swell….you got my number, lady! Use it whenever you want :0) HUGS, Mel

Thanks Lady!

I certainly don’t want to lose touch with you.
I give too much personal info here. It will come back to bite me in the ass someday…for instance…I just slept with a 27 year old tonight…and…it…was…OUT OF SIGHT.

He hasn’t had a relationship in 2 years! No sex for 2 years? And doing the math, altogether only 2 years! zomg. He more than made up for it. I know him too. He is on the level. He has only slept with one other person his whole life and that wasn’t until he was 23. The silent shy type. HOT as fucking HELL. Not as tall as I like ‘em, but I am getting over that.

I could fall for this guy and I shouldn’t. No way. He digs me, too. WTF?

here I go again

27 is a good year....that was the same age as my Robbie....

it’s getting a bit old thinking that the last person I was with is now passed on…...uggh!

I need to take a lesson from my darling girl j2 and get ahold of some new blood and get out of this rut…...

You are a fine person, doll! I understand you worrying about your personal life being discovered…there are many people who are quick to judge what they don’t understand.

Whatever you do and wherever life leads you, be safe and keep your eyeball to happiness and not stuff that’s gonna tear you down…I am starting to realize in my own life that the two can have a very similar face so it can be tricky indeed…..and I wish you the very best! :0) HUGS, Mel

~hopped~ will be playing in the snow...ALL DAY

:)

A Hot for the Teacher situation? 2 years, huh? Like to buy the guy a beer – I’ve been there on occasion. Ha!

Seriously, though, don’t count anyone out, as you’ve said before. If you dig him and he digs you, what’s the problem? An age difference does exist, but it’s not like you’re sixty. You’re still a hot young chick, Hiatus!

:-)

go for him! My husband was the same way… until me :-P Those are the BEST type of guys.

oh and of course...

do come back and read this hopefully? I did not realise you were gone… probably because I was out the country and unfortunately not keeping up with 43things.

Sissy

Ack!

We’ll miss you… Hopefully you’ll visit from time to time.

Still dating him!

Peeking my head in as mentioned.
Am still seeing the now 28 year old.
He bought me a diamond/ruby pendant for my birthday last month and took me to a fancy Boston eatery.
Perhaps Pisces/Leo have a chance…we shall see…

thanks for all the replies here. :)

Lucky

guy…

hi baby girl..

glad you’re havin’ fun! ;0) Me

Hi Q-T-Pie

How are you…I’m thinking of moving to the east coast this year, or early next. If so, I still got your number and will give you a ring so we can hook up and have some laughs. HUGS, Me…

Will do!

I do hope you move closer so we can get together, but I don’t see how one could beat living where you do. Heaven on earth…weatherwise…and such. :)

Ahhhh yes...I'm torn...

And without revealing your location details..will say that I am 90% sure to be moving…within day-trip distance.

:)

That would be awesome!

the more I think about it the more I start shaking in my shoes...

I’ll be leaving every single friend and connection I have made over the past 20 years…the way of life that I know…possibly my job….my never-ending summers….I’ll have to start 100% all over in real estate. It just shakes me down to my shoes to think about it. And for what? To live near relatives? God. Feeling nervous and anxious to say the least. But rather committed to the idea.

I just needed to know.

Just how small is that kitten in the picture? It’s adorable! So tiny. I know that you don’t visit this site to often anymore but doesn’t hurt to ask right?

Sorry!

I found it online. I’m not sure. I just love the mustached finger. If I ever get another tat, I would do that one. ;)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finger_mustache_tattoo

Still dating him!

It will be a year in a couple of months.

See him everyday, think about him every minute. The butterflies are there.

Nice to see my 43T friends are still around!

Hey SC & Meli! How are you guys doing?

Hot Toddie Schoonover has 24 days to run 120 miles

Thanks for Checking In

I think about you every so often and wonder how you’re doing. I’m glad to see that you’re still dating your beau and that it has almost been a year now.

Hugs to you!

Thanks Todd! (((Hugs back)))

Yes, will be a year on March 5th. Still going strong, so that IS saying something.

I am glad to see YOU still have a squirrel on here! (I love how he says “Google” LOL)

Hi QT

Happy New Year…hope your 2008 is going good so far ;0) Melissa

Hey girl!

Thanks and same to you!

Am taking a break from Real Estate for a while as the market here remains deader than Hillary Clinton’s sex life. (Mine is in top form, thank you very much – with the help of my 28 year old sexy man-boy)

Hope all is well there. Are you still thinking about moving east?

Hi doll...(behind on e-mails)...

Well..I’m glad to see you and your boy-toy are having a good time…good for you, sweet thang.

yes, I certainly am still in the mode of coming east…can’t wait… ;0) Will see you then! Still got your number. ;0) Me

~hopped~ will be playing in the snow...ALL DAY

Still kicking

What’s shaking?

Glad you went to the kitten avatar. The monster avatar was seriously creepy. :)

Happy New Year!

Thanks SC!

I am loving your new pic, too!

Hey, I felt seriously creepy for a while. Ups and downs of life.

Have been having a ball with Guitar Hero. I finished GH2 on Medium skill and am almost done with GH3 on Hard! I am such a nerd! Rock Band is teh sh*t, too. I am singing, drumming and strumming my cute lil head off.

What is up with you these wintry days?

~hopped~ will be playing in the snow...ALL DAY

Had a co-worker

tell me about Guitar Hero that he does with his son. Says it’s a blast. Instead of notes you’re reading color codes. Right? Sounds fun.

What am I up to these wintry days? Work, work, work, a little exercise, and drinking excellent beers. And then more work. Oh, and maybe a few minutes of 43T now and then.

Good to hear things are going so well for you. :)

Yes

It’s good to have an ear for music, but it’s all hand-eye coordination. I am playing some stuff on expert level. Medium is too easy, and am almost done with Hard.

Have a temporary tax gig for a few weeks. At least it’s full time. Real estate is not working.

Beer works, too. :D


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