This is not such a problem for me in the outside world, but I have a TERRIBLE time saying no to my boyfriend. I love love love him but he can be needy and demanding, and throw tantrums if he doesn’t get his way. But the problem is, when I give into him too much it creates serious resentments, I get angry, we fight, it damages our relationship. I do too much for him, it takes up all my time, and then he criticizes me for not having MY goals accomplished, which of course leaves me speechless and shaking with rage. So my responsibility in this is to say no! No honey, no baby, no sweetie, No!