I would love to be a part of a family where there is love, respect, compassion, and support. But, the reality of it is that I am constantly criticized, blamed and guilt-ridden. I have been taking care of my mother for over a decade and my sister berates me for being selfish and acting as if the world revolves around me. I have spent over $12K on items for my mother and her household while I could have used that money towards my own place! Now, tell me how does that make ME selfish? Why do I keep trying? Why do I keep looking for their approval when it will never be forthcoming? Why can’t I live my own life without feeling guilty about it?