I’ve gotten better on focusing on “now” rather than what might or might not happen in the future. Rather than living in my place and thinking of what I would do if….now I think of what I want to do now, because there may never be an “if”. The most important thing I’ve realized is that I am not worried about not having something I thought I needed to have – I have a stellar life right now, just as it is. I can just focus on what is now and enjoy it rather than rushing into the next moment, adventure, experience etc. All that will be there and I won’t have to sacrific anything for those experiences.
I used to spend a lot of time on “the future” and I realize that the future is right now.