Have had this done a number of times. No big deal. I prefer getting a massage by a woman, as women have a nicer touch. Also, I don’t feel self conscious in front of other women. The one time I got a massage by a man, he tried to come onto me! I know that’s not usually supposed to happen , but it did happen to me, and I guess that’s what’s put me off getting massaged by men ( unless it’s someone I’m in a relationship with )