I am a very creative person. To say that I am a photographer would limit me and negate the fact that I am many other things. That is the frustrating thing about having a very creative nature. You can be very good at many things but sometimes unable to find which one you want to settle down with.
Well…I refuse to settle. And I refuse to conform to other people’s ides’s about what I should do.
I have been doing photography and planning weddings for many years. Whenever the community/church has a big event or party to plan, I am always immersed in it’s planning.
I cover everything from the beginning formations to photography to design details, to entertainment details…
It is ALL in the details.
I read another blog on here regarding event planning and the woman stated, that it is a job you do not leave at home.
It could not have been put any other way.
For the past two years I have put everything to the wayside and just went about daily life. I started to follow my dream. only to surround myself with people that wanted to kill that dream. That redefined my definition of friend.
But I am now realizing that I have a passion for doing these types of things and that I am very good at it. I do not want to waste anymore time trying to figure everything out. I like it…I am good at it..I’m doing it!
So, I guess there is the answer to the title of this blog…Realizing! LOL! :)
Don’t EVER let anyone tell you you cannot do what you feel called to do. NOT EVEN YOURSELF!
If you can dream it, you can do it. Now…I will keep telling myself that. LOL!
Becoming or Realizing...
Comments:
If you are interested in doing lots of things I recommend the book Refuse to Choose by Barbara Sher and her boards on barbarasher.com. It helped me decide that I don’t have to do just one thing.

