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RP

buy MY old house (read all 4 entries…)
the difference

when I lived in my old house I was happy to use all of the things I had inherited from my parents’ kitchen that they had had since they were married, and even things from my grandfather’s kitchen before he died. It seemed right, somehow. My house was old, or at least seemed old. Many people remarked on how it was “just like” their grandmother’s house. While it wasn’t just like my grandmother’s, nonetheless it reminded me of her house and kitchen. The smells were familiar and had lingered there a long time.

I had old measuring implements, and an old egg separator, a kitchenaid that was 50 years old (but still worked fine). My grandmother’s White sewing machine was in the living room. The house had never been renovated since it was built in 1961 and still had the same old-fashioned linoleum and oak wood paneling. My housemate thought it was dreadful, but I liked it. It wasn’t like stereotypically horrible fake wood paneling from the 70s. For one thing, it was real, and for another, it had a warm honey finish, so it wasn’t too dark. The whole house felt warm because of the oak molding/paneling and the way it caught the light.

Now, of course, I am in a city apartment. It is a nice apartment, but it is small and everything is new. And I find myself throwing things out through necessity, but also because it just doesn’t feel like it matters to hold onto things anymore. And most people I know would claim that this is the way it should be, i.e., that throwing things out is evidence of how unattached we are to material things. I find myself wishing to replace all of the old dish towels, which still work fine, but look old and now also, out-of-place. I’ve walked into a Williams Sonoma more than once and considered getting some nice bright new ones. I never would have done that before.

In fact, as much as I kept things in my old house, I felt that my lifestyle was actually less attached to material things because I would not have replaced much of anything if it still worked. So maybe I had some excess stuff, but it wasn’t because I was going out and buying lots of things.

I’m going to replace the towels. This apartment doesn’t have the luminous quality of my old house; it doesn’t cause people to react immediately upon entering and to comment on how special it is – without being able to put their finger on it. Because of that, it could use some new dish towels.

But the kitchenaid mixer still works fine, though it is now 54 years old.



Comments:

RP

I bought

some bright yellow dish towels today.

RP

the corollary

I’m getting rid of several old kitchen towels. It is more difficult, however, to get rid of three very old floursack towels that my mother embroidered when she first got married. I know at one time they were a whole week’s set of flowers, but the only ones I still have are pansies for Sunday, a rose for Monday and a morning glory for Tuesday. The flowers all look ok but some of the lettering stitching has come out. The towels themselves are quite threadbare, too.

I’m trying to think of something to do with these. I’ve seen some beautiful clothing made out of old embroidered linens for sale at WomanCraft in Chapel Hill. But usually those linens are in better shape and the artist has bought them in antique stores or estate sales. These were used hard for fifty years and show it. The embroidery, though, is lovely (though not as complicated as some) and obviously, I have some attachments to them.

Cushions seem to be an option, but I think that the original cloth would need to be reinforced somehow.

Emelle is planning a comeback.

Could you

make a wall hanging, a quilt sort of thing?

RP

good question

the same question comes up in my mind no matter what the project, though, which is how to reinforce the original now threadbare fabric properly. That’s perhaps why you suggested a quilted backing? I’ll have to think of this some more, but a hanging might be nice.

There also might be some other kind of kitchen use for it, like a covering for the 54 year old Kitchenaid.

Emelle is planning a comeback.

I think

I would iron them onto some fabric stabilizer (available at fabric and craft stores). Then you could add batting and quilt them if you wanted.

I’d love to see the picture of the 54 year old Kitchenaid. I love my Kitchenaid, and I hope someone’s still loving it in 51 years.

RP

I need to get

a digital camera soon, and I’ll try to remember to send you one.

JudithKD Requests no links, tweets, or shared content ...thx!

Add interfacing?

Ask Nonnacookbooker if she knows anything that would work. She makes these beacutiful quilts with lots of small pieces (it looks like).

My suggestion about the dishtowels was to put them in a box and keep them and/or the other stuff. If it suited you to a T before and only doesn’t fit because you have a new space, then obviously, it isn’t the stuff that’s changed, but your circumstances.

Heirlooms are not replaceable, like new things. Whatever the function, something that carries a piece of your past along with it can be valuable. Yes, I know, at some point there’s just too much, but allow yourself to not simply react to the different visual between your old space and what you have now. Honor yourself and your feelings by keeping enough of the old things to not lose the trigger to your past.

If, however, there really is just TOO MUCH! then try taking pictures and see if you can’t substitute an image for the object and keep your past that way. This usually saves a huge amount of physical space.

((hugs))

jkd

RP

thanks Judith

you’ll be happy to know that I did not toss any of the old towels, though I did buy bright new ones. Interfacing is a good idea. They definitely need backing of some kind. I might show them to my mom and sisters and see if they have any ideas too.

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