I’m unhappy with many things in my life and I take it out on others by judging them and adopting the attitude that if I can’t have it, why should they?

I pass a mirror and think “What a bitch…” so I remind myself to smile many times throughout the day. I am trying to change my attitude with things like: “True, I may not be happy with my weight, but I can at least be a happy, pretty fat person, I don’t have to be an angry, frumpy fat person” and “Yes, this person may be a better photographer than I am, but why not learn something from them rather than be jealous?”

It’s going to take time.