All my life I have always cared about this. I still havn’t realized that we can only please ourselves, not others. It’s hard though when society wants us to look and act a certain way.
For example: If your bigger people think you should lose weight, and that you might be lazy?

If your small they may think your anorexic, and if you wear somwhat revealing clothing they think your skanky?

No matter what, everyone is judgemental in some way. That’s never going to change. So I’m going to be who I want to be, and be happy with myself!