At least we are talking again.

After 2 weeks of crying I slowly have gotten back on my feet.
I did not want to speak with her the first 2 weeks after it happened. I was still to angry and felt being backstabbed. I thought we had an open communication and I knew we had to do something.

She is still at my parents. Yesterday we had an appointment where I got to ask questions about the house they want to place her.

I told them I want to have a say in this cause I am still her mom. She thought so too. She is getting a bit pressured to make a decision and that is what I don’t like.
She feels fine at my parents but now she has to make a decision in 1 week. If she wants to stay with my parents or start the procedure so she will be added on the waiting list.
They pressure her because they say, yes now you can go in but maybe in 3 weeks there is a waiting list.

I also told her, she has to live on her own for many years to come, why not enjoy one year of “being a child” (at my parents)
There is only 1 school year left before she graduates. She wants to become a lawyer. (I hope she will succeed)

I guess she will decide to start the procedures though.
I have to let it go and just hope for the best.
At least there is no urgency anymore and there are choices.

I just want what is best for my girl and will support her no matter what.