dare to flirt (read all 4 entries…)
Seems dorky, but.. 4 years ago

I have no idea of how to do that. I’ve been single for about 5 months in my “dating” (a.k.a. since I was 17) life, so I have never really learned that. Help, please?



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Are you kidding? If you make eye contact with a guy that appeals you and you hold it for an instant while you smile…you’re on your way…!!
Enjoy :o)

You make it sound so easy, but I get really embarassed if I was to do something like that.

you are a flirt

Read what Hunkagirl wrote below: you are already flirting on here…!!!
Just move on with your life Hanna.
I know that deep inside you, you know that the near future will unquestionably a self assurance to match your desire to meet new guys :o)
Don’t forget that your are a bright, beautiful young woman.

Heh, I’ll let you know how it goes..

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I’d dare say that to set “learn to flirt” as goal is misleading. The point is not to flirt. What matter is to get yourself a new lover and move on with your life. Seems you have to reconsider if “to flirt” is worth being listed as goal, or not…
What a bloody nosey guy i’ve turned into…!!!

you are such a little cutie...

...you are actually flirting shamelessly in your pictures! :-)

I can’t imagine it will be very difficult for you. :-)

jde is totally right.

Heh, I disagree, I’m just being silly, that’s all.

About holding an eye contact feels weird. I don’t think I’m supposed to be flirting at all =P

Ah, there's no harm...

...in flirting, even if you are only young. Have fun!

No, it’s not that I feel it’s wrong, it’s just that I don’t feel comfortable doing it. It just feels wrong or something. I think it has to do with the fact that it’s “planned”.

And I’m not young =P I’m ooold.

well, I do know what you mean...

... if you are self-conscious, it can feel kind of ‘artificial’... I am quite shy, and still have trouble sometimes with this too…

But just remember how cute you are, and when you see someone you think is attractive, just take a deep breath and go for it! The more you do it, the more natural and spontaneous it feels. :-)

Think this is the key Hanna. It’s all about being natural, being yourself, and maybe not worrying about it so much.

As you say when its “planned” it just doesn’t feel right.

she does look nice

yes you are fine.

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I seriously don’t know how to flirt. It’s scary =P

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I thought 43thing was all about helping others for free =P

I feel awkward flirting.

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smile...

I think is the best way to start flirting.

With such an interesting look, you shoudn’t have any problem flirting with guys and get of them whatever you want… ;)

Haha

I guess I know how to flirt, but I can’t get myself to do it..

:)

then try to stop thinking about flirting and start to do it… Or even better, don’t worry about it and let the other guys to flirt with you… and smile :)

;)

I’ll try =)

I think...

you’re doing it very well… ;)

KonaFab is counting his blessings is runnig sessions on the QXCI

Being a flirt...

Aloha Hanna,
I live in Hawaii and you look like one of the local girls, without a tan, but you look like you would tan pretty easily. I agree with the others that some of your photos look very flirtatious, or silly, as you call them.
You are a very attractive young woman and probably need to stop worrying about if it is planned or not. Most flirting is partly planned. All you have to do is find a guy you think is attractive and bat your eyes. The best started is “tell me about yourself?” But be ready for a long harangue. Be careful about making eye contact with guys because at bars, most guys are looking to pickup women and if a pretty woman makes eye contact, some guys will think, “this woman wants to go home with me and have my chidren.” So it can be a pretty powerful tool.
Find a topic you like and try to start a conversation with a guy. If he can’t hold a conversation with you, then he is interested in something else. And if you want to scare off a guy, say something like, “I have always wanted a big wedding.” Try that out and have some fun. Don’t take it too seriously.
PS, getting a little drunk to loosen up is ok, but getting REALLY drunk can lead to waking up in strange places, and that is NOT good!
Peter


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