i have been co-cooking with my beau. he is a great cook and gives me tasks, from which i learn much. i noticed that i am becoming quite skilled at cutting herbs, garlic and vegetables. i have gained confidence. two nights ago i cooked a yummy simple meal for myself. what i realized is that if he cooks for me, and then tells me how he did it and leaves the ingredients, i can replicate it for myself the next day! saved me money and gave me an easy thrill of pride in that i can do something i never before believed i could. yes, i can!