I’ve realized that I am a good mom. As I talk to my mom, she shares what she felt were her shortcomings, and while at the time they may have been, they were lessons for me for now, as an adult, as a mom, and to realize that my mom was human and not perfect, tho perfect enough for me. My children are happy, provided for (dang near spoiled), and as long as they know they are loved, I am a good mom. =)