catherineaq welcomes 2010!

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I am proud of this 2 years ago

S was away at a conference for two weeks and I held the fort.

Kept E fed, clean, organized, amused. Brought him to his games, school events, etc. Mowed the lawn, weeded, mulched. Took out the trash. Fed the fish. Did all the cat care. Made all the meals and cleaned up from them. Cleaned the house. Worked. Visited my parents. And countless other things I can’t remember right now.

This really brought home how much S is an equal partner in the house and as a parent. I was getting up at 5:30 and going to bed at 11:00 and filling every minute of the day with things that had to be done. I was exhausted and so tired of never coming to the end of things that needed doing.

Plus, I really missed him.

He’s been home almost 3 days now, and life is back to normal. So now I can give myself a huge pat on the back for doing it all while he was gone. Yay me!



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catherineaq welcomes 2010!

When it is that long

it just seems endless. S travels pretty often, but usually just for 2-3 days. This time, days would go by and I’d look at the calendar, and there’d still be many, many more days to go. It was a very slow two weeks.

Picking him up at the airport must’ve been a joy! Now I have a Cowboy Junkies line going through my head: “Have you ever seen a sight as beautiful as a face in a crowd of people that lights up just for you?”

SallyKitt "Action is the antidote to despair" - Joan Baez

That's a lot.

Nice that it had the outcome of appreciation, too.

My DH always is amazed at how many dishes he dirties all by himself when I’m gone!

catherineaq welcomes 2010!

Teamwork

cuts the time chores take, even when there are more dishes, I now believe. I was astounded at the nonstop round of chores I had while he was gone, whereas right this minute I hear him emptying the dishwasher: one thing I won’t have to do later.

Being gone myself….hmmm, that’s an idea!

SallyKitt "Action is the antidote to despair" - Joan Baez

It's an option

you should consider seriously! Take a couple of days with a friend!

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SallyKitt "Action is the antidote to despair" - Joan Baez

That's a lot.

Nice that it had the outcome of appreciation, too.

My DH always is amazed at how many dishes he dirties all by himself when I’m gone!

Makes you wonder

How do single parents do it??? I can’t imagine.

catherineaq welcomes 2010!

I can't imagine!

I guess friends must play a larger role. In addition to the extra work, I was going nuts from lack of adult contact. A friend sent me a “How are you doing while S is gone?” e-mail and I responded with a massively long reply, talking about tons of things. I think I overwhelmed her because she hasn’t yet replied. :) I just needed to communicate with someone who doesn’t chatter silliness nonstop. My brain was melting.


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