Was friends with a guy named S. until some women started gossiping about us. They are stupid!!
We were just having fun and being silly. In real life we were great friends. It was alot of work to be friends with him because neither of us takes risks very easily.
He’s ignoring me now even though he says there’s not a problem between us. I know there is and he’s just clammed up.
So I’ve decided to just let him and our friendship go. I don’t see any alternative except to continue to try to work things out and convince him that they were completely lying about me and wrong about our friendship. That will just make us both crazy.
I’m very sad about this loss because it is out of my control, I’ve done nothing wrong, he’s done nothing wrong and yet we’ve both lost out on a friendship that could have been professionally as well as personally satisifying. I thought we’d all end up friends for a long time. Too bad he has chosen to let a couple busybodies ruin it.
Sucks, but gotta let it go….