because i still believe he’s out there, somewhere…

1. he loves me for who i am
2. he knows i love him for all that he is
3. he knows how to talk with me
4. he shares his secrets with me
5. he makes me laugh
6. he laughs at my jokes, usually… :)
7. he loves to read
8. he is wonderfully creative
9. we can talk all night, or just be
10. he has a deeply spiritual perspective of life
11. he is a wonderfully tender and yet adventureous lover, and we have great sex AND make mahvelous love together
12. he is open to trying new things, whether different food, movies he’s never heard of, experiences & travel
13. he loves me in spite of, or because of, my flaws
14. he loves being a father, and encourages our children to be themselves, yet gives them solid boundaries to securely grow up in
15. he’s neither a boring MBA workaholic, nor a flaky pagan/druid reeking of patchoui…He can appreciate the value and mysteries of the occult realms, but still care about paying bills, putting money in the bank, being responsible about his obligations
16. He has long time friends who’ve known him since “way back when..”, but is open to meeting new people, and making new friends
17. he LOVES getting into the spirit of Halloween: dressing up, planning inventive costumes together, seeing the neighborhood kids come by in their outfits, & having ‘pumpkin carving contests’
18. he acknowledges how tough my life has been, and is proud how i’ve perserveered thru it all…