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Ugh, Wednesday night is a perfect example of why I need this  — 1 year ago

Two of my closest friends called me mean names on Wednesday night when we got together. I’ve never been called a name (to my face) in my life! Boy, I was pretty shocked…and hurt! The phrase “with friends like these, who needs enemies?” came to mind.

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i am sorry 4 u

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feeling sorry 4 u

oh so sad not every friends are like them so must choose carefully who u are making friends.

I regret that this happened. Did you let them know it hurt?

So if their intention was to hurt you, what made them angry?

Is it possible to forgive them, while still letting them know that behaviour is not acceptable?

I would love to share with them “a piece of my mind.” Where are they? I’ll write to them and chide them for being mean!

You are cool in my book. How’s this for an idea? Look:
“I hereby affirm that I will do my best to never abuse you, nor disrespect you, even when I am angry. If I am angry, I will try to let you know in acceptable ways.”

Maybe you can get them to sign that statement above, once they apologize. And apologize they should.

I am willing to be a long distance Friend, as a fellow Friend if you’ll have me. Meanwhile, I hold thee in the Light. (Meaning I will affirm you in an empathetic way, rather than just “pray for you” as if I would be condescending or patronizing. So I hold us all in the Light, as I care for myself with dignity, hope, faith, and charity).

relax

come on! you can find people who really care about you….. it is hard and it takes time but when it happens you will feel perfect!

ο,τι αξιζει ποναει και ειναι δυσκολο !

Hia

Its so weird how you think you know some people well, then something like that happens & its all gone.

Good friendships happen when u least expcet it. Hope u r ok and still making friends a long the way.

mark feeling somewhat better

friends

you don’t need friends like that , dump them … it’s better to have a few friends that care about you then a whole bunch of friends who just use you or talk behind your back


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