One day I simply came to the realization that I CAN’T o everything myself all the time and its silly of me to keep trying just to prove my independence. lol I had to ask a friend how to get an opossum out of my basement. Which turned after that task was accomplished, to may other jobs I hadn’t quite started around the house. As he offered to help, instead of saying my normal, no I’ll get it eventually, I said ok!
Yes, I probably can still do these things myself, but letting others help you saves time, gives you a reason to hang out with friends, and makes them feel better because they have helped you. Hard habit to start, but highly recomended.