'cleansweep' my life up to 100% (http://betterme.org/cleansweep.html) (read all 8 entries…)

Worth doing!

what's left  — 1 year ago

Things that I have yet to check off:

Physical Environment
  • My car is in excellent condition. (Doesn’t need mechanical work, repairs, cleaning or replacing) Definitely needs to be washed. And I don’t know if the busted door counts as “needing repairs,” since it runs fine.
  • My home is clean and tidy. (Vacuumed, wardrobes and drawers organized, desks and tables clear, furniture in good repair; windows clean). So not vacuumed.
  • My appliances, machinery and equipment work well. (Fridge, toaster, lawn mower, water heater, hi-fi etc.). F@#$-ing dryer. [UPDATE: Ha! Suck it, dryer! We opened it up and showed it who was boss :)]
  • I am not tolerating anything about my home or work environment. There are some temperature regulation problems at the apartment. Much improved.
  • My hair is the way I want it. I’m not sure what to do about this, since “the way I want it” is kinda expensive.
Well-Being
  • I rarely use caffeine. (Chocolate, coffee, colas, tea) less than 3 times per week, total. Less than 3 times per day, I can do.
  • I rarely watch television. (Less than 5 hours per week). That rule about not watching TV alone sure fixed this.
  • I have no habits which are unacceptable to me. Less Internet, please.
  • I do not suffer. Ummm…I think if you can check this one off, you’re either a bodhisattva or dead.
Relationships
  • I have told my parents, in the last 3 months, that I love them. That’s not really how Mom and I roll.
  • There is no one whom I would dread or feel uncomfortable “bumping into”. (In the street, at an airport or party). There’s one guy. I owe him some data.
  • I do not gossip or talk about others. HA!
  • I am fully caught up with letters and calls. Not fully.
  • I am a person of his/her word; people can count on me. I try, but I’m not there yet.
  • I do not judge or criticize others. Umm…
  • I make requests rather than complain. But it’s so much easier to just bitch and moan!

It bothers me that my worst category is “relationships.”

Comments:

Kim N can't sleep. waaaah.

Just looking at the stuff listed in this entry

relationships is my worst category, too. :P

I’m adopting this goal. I suspect I need some clean sweeping.

What’s wrong with your dryer?

the dryer has this

“I’m on my last legs” rattle that could wake the dead. I feel really bad for our downstairs neighbor. And unfortunately, according to our lease, the washer and dryer are the lone appliances that we’re responsible for.

Let’s not take this relationships message too personally :)

Kim N can't sleep. waaaah.

Not too personally

The problem with relationships is that there’s always someone else in them screwing them up. heh

Just kidding, mostly. :D

ello isn't unreasonable - I mean, no one's gonna eat your *eyes*

oh my lord

I just went and looked at the site and that was a mistake. I fail, fairly spectacularly, in all categories. (However, I will add the gripe that “cleansweeping” seems to require a certain income level, at least for some things).

Maybe I could just try to tidy up my environment some, figure out health care issues, and focus on the relationships?

totally agree with your gripe

In the sense that you are well and thoroughly f@#$%-ed by their standards if your financial situation is bad enough, and that you can increase your score substantially just by shelling out dough (for a maid, repairs, hairstyles…) And I understand that if you’re in their target demographic (people who can afford life coaching) it’s probably not an issue.

I get less offended if I think of it more as a checklist for how to eliminate subconscious worry than as some kind of judgment. Because if your financial situation is bad enough, it doesn’t make you a bad person, but it probably does keep you up nights.

I like your suggestions for how to make the checklist work for you right now.

ello isn't unreasonable - I mean, no one's gonna eat your *eyes*

I took another look

and actually went through and did it. I did almost, but not quite, as badly as I thought I would, although my scores were highest in the “well-being” category, and surely a few months ago this would not have been true. My worst score was in the financial health section, no shock there. But I thought this was interesting: at the bottom of the page, it says: “One of the goals is to stop having problems . . .”

Wow! That’s a helluva program!

yeah, it's pretty insane

But I guess if you can check off “I do not suffer,” you have stopped having problems.

SG

"That's not really how mom and I roll"

I’m laughing at that so hard ...in your “relationships” section…oh my…

eek, oh my! eh, they were the ones who put my mom in that section to begin with.

SG

Actually, my 12 year old

got me started with “oh my”. Guess it skips a generation. You go, though.


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