I was doing a search looking for tips on how to become a better conversationalist because I have many of the same problems everyone here lists as concerns of their own conversational skills, but after looking at how many people have this topic tagged as something they want to do, I’m beginnig to think most people probably feel this way, including people we think are better at conversating than we are. I think I’m just going to relax from now on and enjoy the conversations I do have.