I guess the only way to expedite it is to open your mind and heart to all possibilities. My fiance is a man that I would have NEVER in my wildest dreams ‘thought’ that was what I wanted or would have looked for. But about 2 years before I met him, I had made a list of qualities I wanted in a mate, all the good stuff, like kind, considerate, caring all the corney stuff. But in the end I met Mark and he was EVERY thing on that very long list and I had to admit that he was IT. My only wish now is that I had but millionare on that list!

I have many friends who think they are looking for love and companionship and are really limiting themselves to what they think they need. To bad we are horrible judges of ourselves. I would never admit that I am needy and a bit lazy, good thing that guy that I didn’t know I needed, needs to be with a needy woman like me!

Good luck and truthfully, honestly open your heart, mind and soul to every possible avenue to love.