I finally called her! She doesn’t sound like the same grandma though so it was a bit weird. My mom says she now has Parkinson’s and that may partly be why, along with her loss of the independence she was once so proud of. Having her so far away makes it easier and harder at the same time. I need to be a better granddaughter though because she is going through a really tough time. Unfortunately she probably won’t ever be the same grandma I remember.