Not sure what I thought this was going to be, but it turned out to be a pretty positive experience with just a little frustration mixed in (mostly about waiting for rooms to open up to have fun in!). We will definitely do it again, but maybe only a few times a year – not every week or month.

We went to a club about an hour away in the middle of BFE. It was a small place and was completely packed about an hour after we got there. Before we went, we made contact through another site so we were able to have someone to hang out with most of the night. Plus, they introduced us to some of their friends and we felt reall a part of the party.

It was a very sexual evening and we saw a wide variety of activities (trying not to be too graphic here). We’re not swingers, so other than shaking some hands and dancing with other people, we didn’t touch anyone else, but we did take care of each other. It was a laid-back kind of place and watching without being involved was cool, so we never felt uncomfortable at all. The only frustration was the line to use some of the rooms. When you’re ready to go, you don’t want to have to wait 30-60 minutes for a room to free up.

You do have to have your expectations in line with your partner before you get there and know what you both are and are not comfortable with. Be open to meeting people of all ages, body types, etc. and just look at as an adventure!