So I’ve been traveling for a while, and I meet this guy rather randomly and we hook up and it’s great, and he offers to fly me to this festival he’s performing at for the next weekend. I accept, we have great sex in his hotel room, I meet and hang out with all the people he’s working with, who are a lot of fun, we get shuttled to the festival every day and I pick constantly at the excellent fruit baskets and drink all day and I have backstage passes to some really well-known acts and that’s that, really. I think it’s important to be low-maintenance and easygoing in a situation like that; the guy I was with had some of his own shit to do and I know he really appreciated the fact that I could handle myself and didn’t have to be looked after.

On the subject of sluttiness, well, at the moment personal freedom is incredibly important to me, I’m used to casual sex, I enjoy it and I like to think my relationship with it is fairly uncomplicated. I’ve found that it takes a guy with a more mature outlook to be able to deal with that and I pick and choose accordingly. I think it’s possible to be promiscuous and treat people with respect, and vice versa, at the same time. And I’m a sucker for charismatic men. Granted, “groupie” is certainly not how I’d like to solely be defined, but it sure made for a hell of a weekend.