I’ve been where you are. The guy I liked was a complete asshole. Everyone told me not to date him, but what did they know? I did. I was with him for 5 years off and on, and we recently stopped talking for good. They were right he was an asshole. He called me every name in the book, maybe even made some up. We ended up getting into physical fights….. but I did love him and I had good times with him.

I think… if you like someone you – cant help who you like. Should you tell him? Why not? he may be an asshole, but some people do change. Not many, but some do. If you think he will just hurt you or just wants sex, then dont. Its that simple. Only you konw whats best for you. It could be one of the best or worst experiences of you life… but you wont know if you dont try….