my new friend has just found out that his so-called ex-spouse is pregnant with his second child. (he would have made her pregnant before i met him.) i am confused because he and i only really had until december to be together since he is in the military and will be posted someplace else in january. so should i nip things in the bud now? knowing that we have an end date might help me with not getting too attached. but he may want to end it with me anyway because he is trying to decide what he wants to do about his new family situation.