never forget what it's like to be a kid (read all 4 entries…)
Untitled 4 years ago

Remember when the adults ruled over you, underestimated your intelligence, and talked as though you weren’t even in the room? When the arbitrary rules just seemed so unfair and the preferential treatment was unbearable and you had to wear shoes that were too tight and nobody believed you that they were tight until your toe poked through your white tights? When people skirted around certain topics and wouldn’t give you a straight answer and you got in trouble for things that you didn’t even know were wrong to do?

Well, I do. And I want to make sure that even though I’m an adult now and I will start to forget exactly what is like to be a kid, I treat them as intelligent human beings, answer their questions as best I can, and treat children with respect. While most kids don’t have to worry about things that adults do, it is incredibly frustrating to be a kid and not be completely in control of your own destiny, and I want to remember a little bit how that feels.



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I agree. While I think that afterschool activities are valuable to children’s growth, it is alarming how many kids are pushed into piano lessons, soccer practice, computer camp, etc. Kids lives are so booked up nowadays and they’re so exhausted when they return from their activities that they just turn to TV and video games instead of other leisure activities like you mentioned.

Parents are afraid to let kids walk around the block to their friends’ houses – how many kids do you know that WALK to school? I never see kids riding their bikes anymore; parents watch the news and are afraid of kidnappers and razor blades in apples and other sensationalized news. That coupled with the pressure to be little adults with booked itineraries and it’s no wonder some adolescents rebel once they hit the teenage years.


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