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sprockets and doodads and whatnot... 2 years ago

so, i tried this internet dating site that matches you on personality, and for a couple of months, i wasn’t being matched with anyone (i’m an eccentric, i guess…), but i met someone through it a couple of weeks ago….

we haven’t met, and she lives pretty far away (re: 400 miles), but i have butterflies in my stomach, and it’s been a long time since i could say that…

so pragmatism be damned… living requires a toss of the dice every now and then, doesn’t it? shame to live on the safe, perhaps…



Comments:

whoa!

I totally had not read your post before I posted what I had just written about my long distance relationship (see above.)

Maybe it’s a sign telling you that going against the odds and taking chances in love sometimes really does pay off. And big!

Good luck!

nice to know it's been done before...

thanks for the comment—nice to know that someone has considered and done what i’m thinking of… from a practical standpoint, it seems kind of crazy, but affairs of the heart are rarely rational… life we be so boring otherwise…

keeping my fingers crossed for you

Internet dating can be demoralizing – I learned the hard way not to get too invested in someone I hadn’t met yet in person – but still, i am totally a fan.

I met my boyfriend online and although he lives further from me than I’d like (75 miles, and I hate being stuck in the car!) the distance isn’t a problem when the feelings are strong. Especially if one or the other of you might be okay with moving eventually.

I’m patting you on the back for taing the risk!

Jennalicious ~ Currently Researching Trouble ;o) ~ Currently Researching Trouble, Fun Trouble That Is :o)

how nice :o)

I think it’s great that you are trying something new and expanding your universe.

As a new experience, how cool that she lives in a different area and you can catch glimpses of things that you wouldn’t otherwise.

I’m a bit pessamistic about internet dates being true loves. When I finally gave up on that in my own life, I started to enjoy dating more. I found people who liked different things, and expanded my world.

Take for instance – the geek (and I’m sooo sorry to say it, but he was) was wonderful online, cute, terribly funny and had exceptional taste. In person, he had too many bad habits to go into here. He was nice and sweet, but there was absolutely no in-person chemistry

As it turns out I saw him a few times because he loved Asian movies and there was an amazing Hong Kong movie festival at a local museum. I don’t know anyone of my other friends that would have gone and enjoyed it with me.

So, I’m just saying, enjoy new-girl and go into it knowing that your world will be fresher and newer. If you take that approach, it’ll be harder to be disappointed if sparks of the heart don’t fly.

i think you make a good point...

your point is well taken…

i’ve done a bit of internet dating before, and i’ve had similar experiences-seems to be interesting on paper, and then in person, no chemistry… and splat-there goes the whole deal…

so, if i’m wary of anything, it’s that, and certainly from the get go, there was a mutual expression of “this seems nice, but let’s see if there’s actual chemistry”...

that being said, i still have high hopes in that i feel particularly drawn to her, and i feel like it’s mutual… but these are incredibly complicated things in the end, and you can’t really depend on any sort of rational calculation…

well, so here’s hoping… and if it doesn’t work out, it was a fun distraction while it lasted…


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