agoraphobicflaneuse is thinking of quitting 43Things and getting on with life.

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Worth doing!

google  — 11 months ago

My last year in college was a bit lonelier than the rest, and I had a difficult job and a lot of coursework. I was also walking at least five or six miles every day just to get where I needed to go, so I would come home exhausted and turn on the NPR and make myself some veggies. I didn’t have a tv, so I got into the habit of just googling random phrases to see what would come up so I would have something to look at while I ate.
I have no idea what I googled when 43 things came up for the first time, but I remember being incredibly excited that such a place could possibly exist. I think I just skimmed through it voyeuristically for over a year before I got the courage to become a member and start posting goals. Now I’m as addicted to it as I am to my diary. Sometimes I feel like I write too much, but I read SO much here too.
The fact that you can be fairly anonymous and still communicate about deep and personal things with other people has got to be one of the greatest wonders of this internet world. I love getting comments, and I love leaving comments and, I especially love getting comments about how something I said helped somebody or amused them. This place is an introvert’s dream, and God bless it.
I haven’t accomplished anything big since I started (about six months ago), but it’s a wonderful comfort to travel around from page to page and see all the magnificent things (and fun trivial things) that other people are accomplishing. I’m in awe of those people you find here who have accomplished dozens of goals, and not only small goals, but also goals that are truly life-changing.
I hope to become one of those people, goal by goal, as soon as I can.

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I found 43Things

by chance when reseaching ideas for a pirate costume to wear to a party. It looked like fun so I looked at the info and signed up. Like you I like that degree of anonymity that it offers and the ability to share my thoughts and experiences with others. It was also a good time for me to find this site (I joined in Sept. 2007). At the beginning of the year I felt really low as I realised I had no goals or ambitions, I was living a very dull, mundane life and I didn’t want to carry on like that. So I made the decision to change, to discover who I was, what I wanted and to decide on some ambitions and actively work toward achieving them. Now, to have somewhere to share those ambitions and the ideas and thoughts behind them is great. I’ve also realised I’m not alone, and other people share some of my difficulties and issues which is a real comfort.


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