First things first – I had to look up “vixen” to find out just precisely what it is I’ll be releasing. And lo, it’s a female fox. Hm. I didn’t know that.

Then I Googled “be foxy” – that didn’t yield anything helpful. In fact, after several dedicated minutes, the only idea to come of my research was to dress up as a fox for Halloween. I guess that’s something! hehe

I’ve only ever felt attractive at my thinnest and flirtiest, and the women I think of as sexy also tend to be either outta-this-world beautiful OR sort of, well, slutty! So for me, releasing my inner vixen may begin with a paradigm shift.

Here I am pondering how I can broaden my view of ‘sex appeal’, and all I can think about is that Friends episode in which Monica is trying to seduce Chandler by holding a box of KD under her chin; rubbing her hand against her leg, carrots splayed out in a fan between her fingers; and circling a giant steel butcher knife over her belly! Needless to say – NOT sexy. Just awkward and nervous, to which, sadly, I can relate.

Still, I’ll give this a go. No doubt my co-vixen, the lovely sexerciser Jenn, will set a shining example of how to unleash the beast ;o)