get rid of my shyness (read all 4 entries…)
How to do this?-Fresh Start 2 years ago

Struggling with Shyness my whole life, Sophomore year of highschool allowed me to find myself somewhat, and speak more.

Senior year i was much more outgoing and had a great group of friends-both girls and boys.

Here i am, my first month of college and I am shy. What’s bad about shyness is that it can easily be misinterpreted as being snobby. I need to talk! So here are some goals that i want accomplished by October 15.

1. Smile a lot
2. When i walk to class I will not call someone from back home. This cell phone is like a security blanket for me- i need to be open to any form of conversations i can get
3. Spend my time more wisely so i have time to go in peoples rooms and just say hi
4. Invite people to lunch, call and text more.
5. When i go to eat, invite anyone who is willing, even people that are not usually in “the group”
6. Ask questions, be enthusiastic
7. Dress well- have confidence
8. Do clubs, spark up conversation there
9. Speak up in class
10. talk to differnet types of people.
12. be a good friend to all
13. not gossip
14. be myself.



Comments:

JadedForever Happy New Year everyone!

Hi-

That sounds like a great start!
Are you doing better yet?
CHEERS!
And Good Luck!

i know what you are talking about

i really can connect with you. It’s not that I am shy arround people I know for a while like family and friends but in front of strangers I am so shy.

I think your list is great. Maybe I should try the same.
Wish you good luck.


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