big things don’t bother me- political, religious, social, lifestyle differences- I can accept these but the little things just drive me mad. today I almost had a fit when someone in the 15 items or less express lane at the grocery store had about 40 things, and did not even begin to look for the checkbook until the entire order was rung up- and then could not find her ID. And then remembered she had some coupons. Argh. This is the sort of thing that makes me unfit for contct with other human beings.