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Oh how I suck 2 years ago

My last belly dance class was tonight and I was so unhappy. I couldn’t do so much of what we did and I tried to keep a positive attitude but I just sucked so bad I was embarassed. One woman next to me was undulating like crazy. I hate her. She moved her hips with absolute precision and I was so so so jealous of her. I decided she was my nemesis- the anti-Sadie. I’m sure she thought nothing of me. Except about how bad I was.



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Chris Cooke finds 43Things thinks he's an extroverted, creative, self-improver.

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WARNING: if you read this comment the wrong way it could sound really mean. I am not trying to be mean at all, only supportive. Please read it that way :-)

It’s more likely she was too busy having fun to pay much attention to you. It’s also possible that, however far you have to go, you’ve come a long way, and she noticed that.

I think your goal not to care so much what others think of you is critical to achieving many of your other goals. I encourage you to relax, not worry about everybody else, not worry about what they think of you, and just work hard and have fun!


 

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