Ivymere continually searches for her ground, her sky, and herself

Compliment a complete stranger (read all 2 entries…)
All the time 2 years ago

I compliment strangers all the time. I do it to workers in shops I visit a lot, just because I’m going to see them again and especially if they’re looking a bit droopy, it’s a good way to brighten up their day or their shift, at least. :D

I won’t lie about something but I’ll usually find something to compliment them on. :) It’s harder with guys, though. They wear less accessories and I’m best at noticing those.

Advice on complimenting guys? Without seeming like I’m attracted to them or like a kiss-ass.



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Complimenting guys

I would suggest offering compliments quickly and lightly, then (if necessary) moving on to another subject or making a bland, neutral comment. I think guys tend to suspect attraction when you dwell on a compliment or maintain a lot of eye contact.

Ivymere continually searches for her ground, her sky, and herself

Good point

:) I’ll keep that in mind. Thanks.


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