how do you go about this? :/

self confidence.
self appreciation.
self respect.
loving yourself no matter what.

this seems like a pretty difficult one, but something i REALLY need to work on. you can’t be truly happy unless you love yourself and realize you are an amazing person.

here is one thing i have learned; the girls who give you dirty bitchy looks or talk shit about you for absolutely no apparent reason; well all it means is that they are jealous of you. where as we usually take it as the opposite.
ex- “she said my hair looks horrible” [we tend to think- “oh god she’s right”!]
when in reality she is too insecure to compliment you nicely so she has to make you feel bad to make herself better.