I love it! A lot of guys aren’t into it, which is shocking (I don’t know about girls, sometimes I think I’m the only one) But all you gotta do is SLOWLY ease them into. I start out with pulling my hair, then I work up to biting, after a while I get them to slap me across the face (but not spank my ass cuz that’s just weird) my “topper” if you would, is choking. But you don’t wanna jump into that too fast, get them confortable with the other shit first cause as a lead-off that’s a bit much. This one “special friend” I had thought it was wrong but by the 3rd time we did it I had him slapping the shit out of me and biting me so hard it left bruises, now he loves it. The easiest way to do it is during sex start talking dirty and just tell them to do it. You have to demand it, usually in the heat of the moment they will listen, after they do what you want them to do tell them how much you love it. If they know you like it they will keep doing it.