So go with your best friend! Or a sibling! Just because your husband’s sense of spontaneity is substantially less acute than yours, doesn’t mean that you should have to miss out on such an amazing opportunity for personal growth! ^.

...or just go by yourself. It doesn’t have to be a cross-country journey.

If you consistently let your husband’s desires rule over your own, your marraige will fail. I promise! You gotta create and acheive your own goals every once in awhile… Ain’t easy, but totally worth it. Good luck!

With all the other comments. My husband would not enjoy this at all. If your husband wouldn’t than find a girlfriend that would or if you dare….do it yourself. Just never forget what your goals are. :)