Well, this was never really an accurate title for my goal—I think it should be “learn how to interact meaningfully with women and not feel like an alien from the wrong planet”. While I generally do not flirt with anyone, I nonetheless feel self-conscious that my ability to interact with males with greater ease relies much on having superficially good looks, which would mean that I generally fail at all social interaction, and it’s only the faint hope of poon tang that saves me from total social isolation.