Why do you do something like:

Host a movie night in your town at a small cafe and invite new people to come to the cafe.. join a knitting club ( I have a friend who finds that great.)

Volunteering is a great way to help people in need, to take your mind off your own troubles and meet new people in the process as well. Volunteer at your church.. or raise money to help a women survivor of war for www.runforcongowomen.org – as an example.

Put together or join a Book club…
Paint – do something you love. Make the commitment to do something you love and you will feel very stimulated.

Don’t worry about your current friends. Sometimes when your interests don’t match the interest of those friends you naturally don’t clique.

You’ll find friends when you do more of the hobbies you love.