I was a cuddly child, but I noticed a shift when I was in high school and everyone insisted on hugging me…. my friends conditioned me to accept them and the hugs I get from them, however I really dont’ like it when people I don’t know well touch me. I hate it when strangers touch me, or when guy I have just started dating feel that they have the right to even hold my hand. It makes no sense beacause I was a serious cuddler as a child. So I need to either come up with a quick thing I can tell people or learn to swallow my revulsion.