sometimes you need to redefine concepts of love.
for instance, intimacy. many define this as involving sex, or a deep openness with emotion.
with what i have been reading, the definition of intimacy has changed to allow intimacy to exist with a stranger. moving my traditional definition of this from romantic ideas to a connection with another.
we have the ability to be intimate with so many individuals, and we shouldn’t limit ourselves.

love works out best when there is a understanding of the basis for the relationship. a sense of respect, honestly, compassion. the deepest of connections is, after all, the love that last the longest.
we have a biological basis for relationships, to reproduce. but moving beyond sex can be most fulfilling, and long-lasting.

just questioning your definitions of love and concepts that are under it’s heading is important.
i’m not in love, but when i do “fall” it will be anything but disposable.