Not get involved in doomed relationships
FEAR

Elliekay wrote that it might be about fear of committment. I am sure it is that ….. for me anyway. Funny thing is I want a family so much, I think with the committment thing is I’m scared of giving everything to someone for them to throw it back in my face. Oooo trust issues. Oooo gonna stop this before I anaylise myself way too much.



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calypte floaty light

Wait...

You mean, you actually get to stop before over analysing stuff?

O.o

Anal Ysing

The ancient art of sticking ya head so far up ya backside that you can’t see the light ha ha.

I agree stop thinking about it cos will take you knowhere. Also have you heard of Self Fulfilling Prophesy ? It’s like when you think of stuff so much that your mindset makes it happen.

So if ya go into realtionships thinking about the doomed ones then you may well get one.

Try the opposite … look for the bits you like and even if the relationship doesn’t work out, look at the positive bits within it … or the bits that made you laugh … or the fact the guy was a complete tosser and you better off without him.

Good luck … now … STOP THINKING :)

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The only thing to fear is fear itself !!


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