CheatingSheila is wading through the muck

stop my sexual addiction (read all 13 entries…)
So on this note of replacing something negative 2 years ago

for something positive. I have decided that i am going to start having positive fantasies…

something i’ve always wanted is a nice romantic date on a boat… or maybe watching the sunset from a boat dock. The clean fantasy comes after that…



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A romantic date

Taken by the hand you are walked along an embankment by the river. The sun is shining. You talk of everything and nothing and seem to epnd the time laughing. At a pier he leads you on to a tour boat that goes up and down the river. You had been hoping for a sailboat or something when you mentioned boats to him and for a moment you are disappointed.

He draws you on and you lean against the rail as the boat moves to the center of the river. The sunshine is bright and he is still holding your hand. You are feeling so relaxed and happy that you cannot help smiling. The boat goes through the center of a zoo and you both make jokes about the animals while he explains about the conservation work the zoo have done. The lions are particularly dramatic and the birds are beautiful The time seems to fly past. As the boat reaches the end of its journey he leads you off and on to a large open expanse of green. He looks happy and keeps looking around as if expecting something. You both see a man walking towards you carrying a large cool bag and your date starts waving. It turns out ot be a delivery of a french meal that has has paid a delivery firm to collect and deliver.

Just a thought…

CheatingSheila is wading through the muck

Sounds lovely

All sounds wonderful. thanks for sharing. It’s nice to think about all the wonderful things we could have in life (and enjoy!). I haven’t been enjoying the happy moments from my life… maybe that is what I need to do.



“Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired, but by controlling the desire.”

Epictetus

Cut off

Actually that was cut off halfway through. Maybe I shall finish it sometime. I am a great believer in stopping and enjoying moments in life.

Second thoughts

On second thoughts I do not think I will finish it. The moment has past. It should work its way towards enjoying a sunset. I once arranged something similar (just in case you are thinking it is unrealistic).

As to the epicticu quotation I am not sure. i tend to believe in both. Take the time to fully enjoy what you have, and control yout desires to want things you can get and can feel good about.

I would say that rather than “stop my sexual addiction” a goal might be to arrange that your addiction (if such it is) leads only to positive benefits for you rahter than self destructive actions. Then you could enjoy it.

Best of luck…


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