Today I had a disagreement with my mother in law, and I said NO! Oh it was so hard. She wanted to have Vicky tonight and tomorrow during the day, but I told her that I can take there tonight, but tomorrow her father has to take her to the daycare. because I want her to go to the daycare. She missed 1 day last week, and a few times last month…. And there is a limit of the days she’s not attending the daycare. I was waiting for so long for this daycare, and finally got her in, now I am not risking this. So I said I am going to pick her up tomorrow morning (the father is busy as usual) and this is the condition. So I am proud of myself.
And another big one is coming – Christmas…. I am not letting my baby go there on Christmas. And I have to find a polite way to tell her (which will be hard). Sorry, but Vicky is my only family here, and soon to be ex husband has his mother here, and she has him. My mother in law offered me to go to a party (not some party in particular, but any party). Surprisingly they all of a sudden want me to go to a party. Usually when I have plans for going out on Friday or Saturday the people are busy…. And actually I am going to a party on the 24th in the evening, but I’m takin vicky with me. She’s a party girl from the day she was born, so we’ll have fun. And on the 25th we will stay home.