Maybe. He thinks we are getting closer and working some things out which I still don’t know what they are. He claims that the other woman is just a friend and all they do is talk… i think this feels wrong and she should not be having what seems to me as a high school infatuation. they text each other all the time and talk on the phone up to 10 times a day. this is wrong and he claims that she is on of his friends and why am I making it a problem and acting jelous. if I don’t trust him what do we have. Nothing. What reason do I have to trust in him. He is finding his happiness with another woman and not with me for some reason. We had a rough year and I’m trying to make amends in whatever way I think I can since he can’t tell me exactly what is wrong. i have to guess. I feel like she is his best friend and that I’m not. Is this a midlife crisis that lots of 45 year old people go through?? Would I be wise to stick it out since I do love him or should I take what little bit of respect that I have left for myself and move out in januaryl. I have to go and talk to someone who can help me see this a little clearer. Am I just being a jelous bitch and he is ok to be hanging out with a pretty 33 year old going throught a dovorce. She calls him her emotional infidelity. thats just wrong and sick. i hate her and am tired of thinking about her and him.