jsut like with the rest of my goals, I have a general idea what I DON”T want but not a clear picture of what I DO want. It isn’t great livign here but it saves me money and saves me from signing another lease so I can move out of this city. Funny when my goals contradict each other. Maybe “find balance” should be my next goal. What do I even want my next living situation to BE? Find another roommate? Shack? Buy a house b/c thats what a30 y.o. “should” be doing???? I’d better find a city I’m happy in first. Now we’re getting somewhere.