in the past: this was me too! I cut n pasted from jazaminax below:

Now I rarely pick up. Blame it on school, or work, or only having a car charger to where my phone is always almost dead, but I do feel bad. I’m not trying to avoid anyone… Just basically don’t feel like picking up more often than I used to. But I’m going to change that

NOW: I answer almost always!! And after a month people stopped saying. WOW!!! I cannot believe you answered!!!
yay!