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Call me naive 23 months ago

I have not grown up in a cave or under a rock, but I didn’t realize how munipulative grown-assed people could be, or try to be. I would think that people would grow up and not play the same games that they did in high school and college. But nooooo…

But you know, people have vested interests in maintaining the status quo and getting what they need no matter how it affects others. They feign being team players, when they really want, or insist, that it should be their way.

I think I have finally realized that peoples’ actions, even if they are directed toward me, have absolutely nothing to do with me and everything to do with them, their past and their issues. Going forward, I am no longer going to take offense at perceived slights (particularly at the day job), ‘cuz thry have nothing to do with me. I know I am fabulous!



Comments:

VeeShay is figuring it out

You're not naive

Sounds more like you look for the good in people and may overlook a basic fact: every person is selfish. They may or may not have a specific agenda, but everyone is trying to get through life while making sure they get what they perceive they need/want because no one can fulfill all their needs apart from others. The selfishness comes in when others feelings and needs are not considered as equivalent to their own. Always remember that. You just have to figure out what area they are needy/lack in so that you can determine if you can deal with them and how you will do so.

SuperHussy has returned. ready to revamp and progress!

So true

The thing is though…folks need to realize that they are responsible for their needs. I cannot make Person X happy or fulfilled. I can contribute to their happiness, but that’s it. And then, some folks are just evil heifers.


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