Just the other day I had a little ‘kick in the ass’ from myself if you will… now I’m going to tell my fiance no on a lot more things he wants and we don’t need, I’m also not going to take any shit from this girl at work anymore. I’m competent, and I do a good job, and I don’t care what she thinks of me, and she doesn’t make up my world. I have plenty of people who love me, and think I’m an awesome person. I don’t need her approval.